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Bill Kibler

Bill Kibler is 100% hearing impaired, disabled, and retired from the VA after 11.5 years of service. A US Marine Beirut Veteran who served with the Multinational Peacekeeping Force, Beirut, Lebanon from late 1982 to early months of 1983. He was not there for the terrorist bombing on Oct. 23, 1983. Bill also maintains the website for the CA LGBTQ Veterans Memorial. He maintained the Journals Program website and InPress server for the American Psychological Association for 13.5 years. He’s also done community service work helping such people as Broadway’s own Steve Schalchlin, Jon and Michael Galluccio, (the gay couple who sued NJ for the right to jointly adopt children, kicking off the nationwide gay adoption drama), Got Felipe Rose started online, (the Indian for the Village People), and the DC Metropolitan Police Dept. Gay and Lesbian Liaison Unit (GLLU) making history as a nationwide resource website for the law enforcement community to research such things as hate crimes and discrimination within the LGBTQ Community. (The UK modeled their own GLLU program after DC’s exposure) He worked on DADT Repeal for 12 years and was at the DADT Repeal Law signing ceremony, Dec. 22, 2010.

Background on the President’s Don’t Ask Don’t Tell Repeal Bill Signing

John Kinslow

Being in the transition period between Boomers and GenX. I was born in Hagerstown, MD the second youngest of 10 kids. We moved to just North of my current home in ND when I was 5.

While a Junior I joined the Army National Guard to help my mom with bills. While a Senior I signed my enlistment contract with The Corps. I signed up open contract on April Fool’s day. Why the Marines… both of my martial arts teachers instructors are Marines and reverse psychologyed the hell outta me telling me I would NEVER make it through.

13 weeks later (yeah I spent a week in PCP) I returned to the dojo a United States Marine. Senpai held out his hand to Sensei. The bet was $50. My AIT was at MCCES 29 Palms for radar repair technician (didn’t make it).

The next duty station was 8th Marines on Camp Geiger for Field radio operator course. Upon graduation I was assigned to 1/8 who was in preparations for deployment. We were assigned to be part of the Multinational Peacekeeping Forces of the UN.

While serving in Beirut Lebanon, I was a survivor of the terrorist attack on Oct. 23/1983. Due to being nondeployable, I ended my Marine service in May of 1985.

Bonnie Tierney

Bonnie Tierney, Our Third LGBTQ Veteran has  written a book on her experiences.  Locked in Time: I Still Remember and Always Will

POST-TRAUMATIC STRESS DISORDER . . .
THE SILENT AND DEADLY COST OF WAR.

A person with Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) will grasp onto anything or anyone to keep them alive, to keep them feeling good, to take away the pain, to feel anything about themselves inside.

On October 23, 1983, 241 Marines were killed in their sleep during the bombing of the Marine barracks in Beirut, Lebanon. For almost 30 days, Lieutenant Bonnie J. (Caceres) Tierney was the Mass Casualty Officer at Rhein Main Air Base in Frankfurt, Germany, assigned to help identify and process the body parts. Day after day, she did her duty, while trying to detach from the horror of it all.

Her first thoughts of suicide began while she was stationed in Germany.

What followed was more than 20 years of depression, isolation, nightmares, panic attacks and reckless behavior, until she finally sought professional help. She was diagnosed with Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder, a condition that plagues our servicemen and servicewomen who have witnessed the unspeakable.

This is Bonnie’s poignant story.

 
Our 4th Beirut Veteran we are honored to have aboard:
Rabbi Arnold E. Resnicoff is a retired U.S. Navy Chaplain, former National Director of Interreligious Affairs for the American Jewish Committee, former Special Assistant to the Secretary and Chief of Staff of the U.S. Air Force for Values and Vision (with the military equivalent rank of Brigadier General), and former Command Chaplain for the U.S. European Command. His Naval career began in the rivers of Vietnam followed by Naval Intelligence in Europe before rabbinical school and ordination, then returning to the Navy as a chaplain. Part of a small group of Vietnam veterans that worked to create the Vietnam Veterans Memorial, he delivered the closing prayer at its dedication, and launched an ultimately successful campaign to convince the Department of Defense to participate in the U.S. National Days of Remembrance of the Victims of the Holocaust. On October 23, 1983, he was present in Beirut, Lebanon during the terrorist attack that took the lives of 241 American military personnel. His report of the attack and its aftermath was read by President Ronald Reagan as a keynote speech to a convention attended by 20,000 Southern Baptists. Rabbi Resnicoff spoke frequently on the need to overturn the military Don’t-Ask-Don’t-Tell policy, at venues including the annual Ethics and Military Leadership conferences at the U.S. Naval War College — a conference he helped create, and throughout his career was a strong supporter of LGBTQ rights, delivering the prayer at the 2010 presidential repeal ceremony for DADT. His younger brother Joel, a noted artist, lost his life to AIDS in 1986. His website is www.resnicoff.net

Our Purpose

  • Maintaing the GayVeterans.us website supporting the LGBTQ US Veterans Community.
  • Being a Communications Center to disseminate information on the website and within the LGBTQ US Veterans Community on social media platforms.
  • Establish the Vets Helping Vets charitable donations program. (TBA)
  • Provide community assistance when justified with donations.
  • Encourage LGBTQ Veterans to participate in VA programs.
  • Provide assistance with LGBTQ Veterans with getting their discharge upgrades affected by DADT
  • Raising awareness to Veterans Suicide and where to seek assistance
  How will my donation be used? GayVeteransUS-Inc. is a non-profit, charitable organization in the State of Tennessee and has applied for IRS §501(c)(3) status, allowing you to deduct donations as charitable contributions on your tax filings. We are run by veteran volunteers, so our expenses are extremely low – no rent, no payroll, nothing fancy. Each year we will file a publicly-available Form 1099 with the IRS allowing you to see how money is spent. We do have expenses – maintaining the website, keeping it up-to-date, adding new features, web server hosting fees, domain name renewals, administrative costs, and postage,– so we depend on your financial support.

If you are able to make a donation, please use our PayPal donations directly. Your generosity will permit us to maintain and expand our services. We sincerely thank you in advance!

Frequently Asked Questions

What is GayVeterans.us?
GayVeterans.us is the brainchild of Bill Kibler, who has a long standing reputation of combining both community service and the Internet. After 35+ years of working with the Beirut Veterans community and enduring nothing but hate and bigotry from within, he decided enough was enough and discussed his plans with the other 2 LGBTQ Veterans who also endured the same experiences from within the Beirut Veterans community. Yes, there are some good people there, but for the most part, the overall bigotry anti LGBTQ atmosphere weighed its toll on the 3 Beirut Veterans. GayVeterans.us is our vision. Our commitment to the entire LGBTQ Veterans Community to provide both a Safe Space, free from what we have experienced within our own veterans community, and as an online community resource for the entire LGBTQ Veterans Community.